At CDMX Men’s Club, our Sex-Positive Events are about more than just sex—they’re about reclaiming intimacy, understanding our desires, and learning how to make meaningful connections through pleasure.
We live in a world where most gay men are only taught one model of sex: fast, anonymous, app-driven, and disconnected. That kind of sex can be valid and enjoyable—but it’s not the only kind. And for many, it leaves something missing.
Our events explore what it means to be a sex-positive gay man—how to bring intention, connection, and personal growth into our sexual lives.
Being sex-positive means approaching sex and sexuality with openness, respect, and curiosity—without shame or judgment. As gay men, many of us have grown up in environments that taught us our desires were wrong, sinful, or dangerous. This internalized shame can carry into adulthood, even when we’re sexually active.
At CDMX Men’s Club, we challenge those messages. We believe:
A sex-positive event is about intentional connection, consent, and personal growth—it creates a space where people can explore intimacy, touch, and sexuality in a way that’s respectful, emotionally present, and rooted in mutual understanding. While sexual activity may occur, it’s not the focus or expectation; instead, the emphasis is on communication, boundaries, and meaningful interaction. An orgy, by contrast, is typically centered on unstructured group sex, often with little to no interaction beforehand beyond physical attraction. Sex-positive events prioritize connection over performance, creating safer, more conscious spaces for exploration.
These are not just play parties. They are intentional spaces where you’ll learn how to be present in your body, communicate clearly, explore desire consciously, and connect authentically with others.
Some of what we offer includes:
These events are built on consent, safety, communication, and care. Everyone’s boundaries are honored. There’s no pressure to participate in anything you’re not ready for—just the invitation to be present and open to learning what sex-positivity looks like in your own life.
For too long, gay sex has been defined by what’s fast, easy, and available—but not necessarily what’s fulfilling. At CDMX Men’s Club, we believe that you deserve more than just friction—you deserve connection, confidence, and joy.
Our sex-positive events aim to create a culture where your desires are honored, your consent is respected, and your whole self is welcome.
